“Since it is so likely that children will meet cruel enemies, let them at least have heard of brave knights and heroic courage. Otherwise you are making their destiny not brighter, but darker”.
C. S. Lewis
In times of peace, or at least in times when war does not impact upon our homes, we like to think that our children may never need to face violence. We hope that a generation can grow up focused on the more social virtues and we hear of mothers who don’t want their boys to play with swords and guns, not wanting to encourage violence.
I want to make two points. The first is this. Times change. At the moment there is less violent crime than since anyone started keeping records. If I remember correctly, in the 80s your chances (as an adult) of being the victim of violent crime within a year were something like 1 in 20. Now the chances are 1 in 50. Obviously some people will have less opportunity and some more, but that sounds good to me. Will that always be the case? Frankly I’ve lived long enough to not want to try to predict anything about life in 10 years time. The history of man is a violent story. The news from around the world shows that we have a more settled and peaceful world than at any time in the past with less wars and fewer people bing killed in conflict than ever. Does that mean it will always be thus? I think there are a few situations simmering at present that could boil over. Always be prepared to fight if you want to live in peace.
The second point I would make is this. Courage is needed for life, period. It takes courage to face illness. It takes courage to risk business ventures. It takes courage to risk loving!
Stories of brave knights (or whatever substitutes you use) are the analogies that our children learn from. They need to learn to face insuperable odds and fight on. They need to be able to feel that they stand alone and fight on. They need to know how to be knocked down and get up. They even need to be able to stand for a virtue or a truth when all others are against them and hold their ground. Sometimes they will have to stand even though they know they must eventually lose, but hold their ground anyway. They will sometimes need to see the barbarian hoard charge at them and still lift their shield, grip their sword, steady their legs, square their shoulders, clamp their teeth, dip their head, stare the enemy in the eye and hold. Why? Because courage is needed for life. Your world increases or shrinks in proportion to your courage.
